Holidays 2010, Part 1: Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving from the Zrelaks!

Thanksgiving, as well as the other holidays celebrated this year was a little bittersweet. Having Joe home to spend this special day with was wonderful. Of all of the things I am thankful for, he ranks right up there in the top three (being edged out of the number one spot only by "Knowing God") so his presence made my heart glow a little brighter. However, being so far from our dear families and others we love made it a bit harder to cradle a thankful spirit. You'd think that after 11 years of being away, we'd get used to it, but that is just not how love works. We're resilient, though, and we did our best to remember the amazing blessings we've been given.

We have a warm, cozy home. Joe has a good, steady job. We both enjoy good health. Our marriage is balanced and forgiving and full of love. Every year, I get new, amazing, beautiful nieces and nephews. Our dog makes us smile. We make incredible friends every time we move and have a network of "places to stay" all over the country. Our bellies are always full. I feel deeply loved by my family, even from 3,800 miles away.

And those are just the big things. The little, everyday things could fill every last little bit of free space on my hard drive. I'm thankful that I realize this.

This particular Thanksgiving day was shared with friends. I spent the morning making side dishes for the meal with our neighbors Dana, Jen, Trevor, and Tyce. My contribution: cranberries, stuffing, green bean casserole, and festive broccoli (yes, broccoli has high amounts of festive potential). Dana fried a turkey. Yummmm. If you haven't ever tried fried turkey, I highly recommend that you do. It is not oily or greasy. It is tender and delicious. Trust me, I was hesitant at first too.

Our Thanksgiving spread

Our meal with the Cunninghams was delicious. We enjoyed each others company and stuffed ourselves silly. There was simply no room for dessert so we cut a couple of pieces of homemade sweet potato pie (courtesy of neighbor Roni Harden) and pumpkin pie and brought it home for later.

When "later" arrived, we had our very good friends, Ryan and Lindsay, over for dessert and wine. I had baked up a delicious apple pie (courtesy of Mrs. Smith) to add to our spread of tasty treats and we uncorked a bottle of Frog's Leap Zinfandel.

So thankful for good friends.

Also thankful for Ryan's festive sweater!

The wine was delicious and the conversation quite enjoyable. We filled our bellies with pie and had many good laughs.

While Lindsay and I enjoyed a good chat in the nice, warm house, Joe and Ryan enjoyed a good cigar on the back deck, huddled around a heater.

Smoking by the light of a propane heater

That evening just kind of felt the way life is supposed to feel. Relaxed, safe, connected, and fun. I'm so thankful for those moments.

Overall, the day went well and by the end Joe and I were ready to curl up together in our warm bed and simply rest in the thoughts of our blessings.

"Now, our God, we give you thanks, and praise your glorious name." 1 Chron 29:13